понедельник, 27 августа 2018 г.

The Power Of Patience And Tenacity Of Purpose

By Debra Nelson


History is liberally sprinkled with individuals that were seen as great leaders, hugely successful business people, exceptional artists and celebrated scientists. May studies have been conducted to try and find out whether all of these exceptional individuals shared certain characteristics, even though their fields of endeavour differed so wildly. There are indeed certain characteristics shared by most highly successful people. Among these, patience and tenacity of purpose stand out as traits absolutely vital to success.

Patient people do not expect immediate success. They know how to deal with difficulties and interference without losing their tempers. They focus on present challenges and they do not fret about looming potential problems. They do not allow their emotions to influence their actions or thoughts and they never blame other people or circumstances for their difficulties. Patient people are not surprised by adversity. They anticipate it and they deal with it.

Patient people should not be confused with lazy people hoping for a miracle to occur. A salesman, for example, will never get a sale if he just sits and wait for the phone to ring or for a customer to walk in. He has to identify and talk to potential clients, distribute marketing material and implement appropriate marketing strategies before he can patiently wait for results.

A tenacious person is someone that can perhaps best be described as determined, as someone with strength of will. Tenacious people are single minded and they do not allow anyone or anything to detract them from their purpose. They know precisely what it is that they want to achieve and they pursue that goal without giving up or without becoming side tracked.

Pursuing an impossible or unrealistic goal does not mean that someone is tenacious. For example, setting oneself the goal to prove that the earth is flat is foolhardy, rather than tenacious, regardless of the effort and resources poured into achieving this goal. A tenacious person has realistic goals with realistic target dates. He then pursues this goal with determination and strength of will.

The combination of being both tenacious and patient is a very powerful one indeed. Such a person will set very specific goals and perform all the actions necessary to achieve that goal. He will deal with setbacks calmly and rationally, never losing faith in his ability to achieve what he set out to achieve. In combination, these two characteristics define a person that is, on the one hand, single minded but also, on the other hand, able to deal with problems.

Contrary to what many people believe, it is perfectly possible to unlearn negative traits and to acquire positive ones. One can definitely learn how to be tenacious and patient. Disciplines such as yoga and meditation can be of great help. There are also numerous internet resources and books on this subject. All one needs is the will to improve in this area.

One should never confuse a truly tenacious person with a foolhardy one without any sense. Neither should one think that a patient person is someone simply waiting for a miracle. These people work hard at achieving their goals and they do not allow anything to deter them from their ultimate purpose.




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