"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
It's because we really don't think that we will find anything better despite how untrue that idea really is.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And another...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that happens, you have to be willing to work with the pains of the past and taking on life's challenges knowing that they are giving you exactly what you need to succeed in life.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
It's because we really don't think that we will find anything better despite how untrue that idea really is.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And another...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that happens, you have to be willing to work with the pains of the past and taking on life's challenges knowing that they are giving you exactly what you need to succeed in life.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
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